A Scholarship, a Playground and a Promise
How One Family’s Love for a 6-year-old Boy Continues to Shape Lives at Texas A&M
When Brianna Rodriguez opened her mailbox and found a handwritten letter from a woman she had never met, she did not expect it to change the way she saw her education.
“It’s an understatement to say I was touched,” Rodriguez said. “Learning the background of why she decided to give back to students at Texas A&M with the Spencer Patton Squire Memorial Scholarship was incredibly sweet.”
The letter was from Patricia “Patsy” Kirksey, an 85-year-old grandmother in College Station who has spent nearly two decades making sure every student who receives her family’s scholarship knows the story of the little boy behind it.
That little boy’s name was Spencer Patton Squire.
Spencer
Spencer was the first grandchild of Kirksey and her late husband, Warren “Pat” Kirksey ’56. He had strawberry blonde hair, bright blue eyes and what Kirksey describes as a toothless smile that resonated happiness.
He was active in everything: soccer, basketball, baseball, football and golf. But it was Aggie athletics that ran deepest. Spencer attended baseball camp and soccer camp at Texas A&M and was a regular at Aggie football, baseball and basketball games. At Aggie Ambassador summer meetings with his parents, Patrick ’91 and Anna Squire ’91, he met some of his athletic heroes, including Acie Law and Stephen McGee.
“His Aggie spirit is forever with us,” Kirksey said.
One of the family’s favorite photos is of Spencer sitting at Olsen Field with an empty popcorn hat on his head. On his sixth birthday, Dec. 9, 2006, he attended baseball camp at Olsen Field, where then-head coach Rob Childress had all the campers sing happy birthday to him.
Months later, during the first few days of his school journey in 2007, Spencer succumbed to an undetected malignant brain tumor. He was 6 years old.
The Gift of Life
While their hearts were shattered, Spencer’s parents made a decision that would save another life. They chose to make him an organ donor.
A woman in Oklahoma named Jana Cox needed a liver transplant after breast cancer treatments had damaged her liver years earlier. Spencer’s liver gave her that chance.
Because of his gift, Cox is alive and thriving almost 20 years later. She watched her son grow up. She was there when he graduated from high school, when he got married and when he had children of his own. An entire lifetime of moments made possible by a 6-year-old boy she never got to meet.
“Spencer truly gave the ultimate gift, the Gift of Life,” Kirksey said.
Spencer’s Corner
When Blue Bell Park at Olsen Field was being built, former Aggie head coach Rob Childress wanted to make sure Spencer’s name would be part of it. He created a children’s playground down the right-field line and named it Spencer’s Corner.
When the ballpark opened in 2012, Childress arranged a special morning for the Squire family. Spencer’s brothers, Ryan and Jack, along with cousin Sophia, wore hard hats and took a tour of the new facility. They were the first children to play on the playground and slide down the slides. Players, including Michael Wacha and Tyler Naquin, greeted them on the field.
“Spencer’s Corner is a beautiful, happy playground,” Kirksey said. “The sounds of laughter and smiles of happiness on children’s faces, seen in person, live on TV or often times mentioned by the commentators during the games, brings joy to our hearts.”
Today, families gather at Spencer’s Corner during Aggie baseball games while children play just past first base. It is a living memorial to a boy who loved everything about being an Aggie.
The Letters
In 2007, Kirksey and her husband established the Spencer Patton Squire Memorial Scholarship in Education at the College of Education and Human Development. It is a one-year award for freshmen with financial need.
“Soon after Spencer passed away, we at once knew we were giving this scholarship in his memory and honor,” Kirksey said.
Kirksey’s daughter, Margo Dailey, who was Spencer’s aunt, had served alongside Kirksey on the Education Foundation. Both were passionate about Texas A&M’s educational mission and the scholarship became a way to honor Spencer while supporting students at the university the family loves.
What makes this scholarship different from most is what happens after the award is given. Every year, Kirksey writes handwritten letters to each recipient, sharing Spencer’s story in her own words. In a time when most communication is digital, a personal letter from a grandmother in College Station arrives in a student’s mailbox and tells them exactly who they are honoring by being at Texas A&M.
When asked what she hopes her letters accomplish, Kirksey pointed to a quote from novelist Joseph Conrad:
“My task, which I am trying to achieve is, by the power of the written word, to make you hear, to make you feel. It is, before all, to make you see.”
A Promise Kept
For the students who receive the Spencer Patton Squire Memorial Scholarship, Kirksey’s letters are often the first time they learn Spencer’s story.
Viely Barron, a Kinesiology major in the College of Education and Human Development, said the scholarship relieved a financial stress that had weighed on her since arriving at Texas A&M. But it was Kirksey’s handwritten letter that changed how the award felt.
“Receiving a handwritten letter from Patricia Kirksey was one of the most meaningful moments I’ve had as a scholarship recipient,” Barron said. “It felt so personal and thoughtful. You don’t get handwritten letters often in this modern age.”
Learning there was a real person and a real story behind the scholarship shifted something for Barron. She had arrived at Texas A&M questioning whether she belonged. The letter answered that question.
“Coming into college as a first-year student can feel overwhelming, and there were moments where I questioned if I was doing enough or if I really fit in here,” Barron said. “This scholarship has been a constant reminder that someone believed in my potential and invested in my future.”
Brianna Rodriguez, a Sport Management major, carried a different weight that followed her to campus.
“I don’t come from a family in which money comes and goes,” Rodriguez said. “This scholarship has eliminated any weight that was on my shoulders when I was figuring out how I was going to be able to pay for my education without causing any burden to my family.”
When Rodriguez read Kirksey’s letter and learned about Spencer, it changed the way she saw her own time at Texas A&M.
“It saddened me how his chance to live a long life was stripped away from him,” Rodriguez said. “It’s made me realize that I have to start living my life and go after everything I wish for.”
But it was one line from Rodriguez that captured what Kirksey’s letters are really doing.
“Since reading the letter, I promised myself to make her proud,” she said.
Keeping the Light Shining
Patsy Kirksey’s message to current and future students receiving the scholarship is simple.
“Keep the light in Spencer’s legacy shining and use it as personal dedication to navigate the power of giving in your future Aggie journey.”
Nearly 20 years after a little boy with strawberry blonde hair and bright blue eyes sat at Olsen Field with a popcorn hat on his head, his legacy continues to grow. It lives in the laughter at Spencer’s Corner, in the handwritten letters that arrive in students’ mailboxes, in the education of young Aggies who might not be at Texas A&M without help and in the life of a woman in Oklahoma who is alive today because of a 6-year-old’s gift.
Spencer Patton Squire never got to walk across a graduation stage. But through his family’s generosity, others will.
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